Why Did You Do That? No one likes to be challenged about their mistakes. It is human nature to get defensive and argumentative when questioned. The brain seems to shut down with a “why” question. For example, can you remember as a child being asked a question like, “Why did you spill the milk?” Do…
Self Control When a child is out of control, parents get controlling. But this reaction does not teach your child self- regulation. In the long term, an over control style can trigger resentment or rebellion in the child and does not create an internal locus of control. The 1960’s Stanford Marshmallow Experiment has been the…
While it is common to joke about ADHD, only about 3%-5% of the population meets diagnostic criteria. Likely your child’s inordinate energy, inattentiveness and impulsive acts are age appropriate and driven by holiday excitement.
Good parenting is a balancing act; we can’t rescue them from the consequences of their choices yet we need to be present and convey empathy and nurturing.
Our kids can do hard things. Quit helping them with tasks they are capable of doing by themselves. Let them experiences the consequences of their actions.
For self esteem a child need to feel a valuable part of a GROUP AND precious as an INDIVIDUAL
It is not easy to really see your child; our vision is clouded by our ego. We get confused how our child is versus how we wish they would be. But a child needs to feel accepted for their strengths and weaknesses.
A misbehaving child is a discouraged child. Learn good parenting skills through a Positive Discipline class.
We all like to support what we help create. If you work together and include your child’s ideas in the solution, you won’t have to fight the homework wars.
Some children are born extra sensitive, some have experienced trauma in their lives. Regardless of the cause, these children struggle finding personal peace.